Alternative Dating

An alternative dating site dedicated to alternative singles, making it easier for like-minded people to meet and get to know each other. if you’re a goth, punk, emo, tattoo lover, rocker, skater, metal-head or anyone enjoying an alternative lifestyle, give us a try!

Alternative Dating

An alternative dating site dedicated to alternative singles!
Alternative Dating - Encounters is our introduction game and a fast and fun way to browse singles.


Encounters is our introduction game. We show you a snapshot of a profile, you decide whether or not they’re for you, and if you give them the thumbs up, we’ll let them know! A fast and fun way to browse singles – think Tinder!
Alternative Dating - Diaries are a great way to share your dating thoughts and experiences.


Alt Dating is a community of alternative singles, all searching for someone similar. Diaries are a great way to share your thoughts, experiences and find out how others are getting on too.

Alternative Dating - Search, update your profile, check your messages and chat straight from your mobile.

Dating On The Go

Alt Dating is smartphone ready, so you can search, update your profile, check your inbox and messages straight from your mobile. Meaning you’ll never miss out on a potential connection.

Alt Dating - UK based team of highly trained online dating safety experts who work around the clock to keep our sites scammer free.


We have a UK based team of highly trained online dating safety experts who work around the clock to keep our sites scammer free. We moderate all our member profiles and our moderation and anti-fraud teams are the best in the business at what they do.
Alt Dating - Search for that special person today! Over 73,000 members!

Search for Free

Members across the whole of the UK! Find that special person near you today! Set up a FREE basic profile now. Search for someone and even send out a free introduction to multiple members!

Alt Dating - Free to join, add your photo and create your own personal profile page

Join Free

Geared solely for alternative people, Alt Dating allows you to connect with like-minded people without potentially having to waste time with loads of people who aren’t your type!

Join our alternative dating community and find people like you!

We understand that there are people who don’t fit a traditional dating website demographic, and don’t want to waste time searching through loads of people who don’t get them and simply aren’t suitable. This is why we created Alt Dating – alternative dating for goths, punks, emos, tattoo lovers, rockers, skaters, metalheads, burlesque divas, fetish queens, vampire/zombie lovers and more, all looking for people who will get them.

The idea is that joining Alt Dating you will feel welcome and at ease – surrounded by like minded adults, able to chat, relax, date and communicate without worrying about being judged. You’re just a few clicks away from meeting fellow alternatives, in your area, who like everything from tattoos and body mods to burlesque and fetishism. Whether you’re looking for the love of your life, a play partner, something casual or just new pals, all are most definitely welcome!

Meet some of our latest members…

We Check All Our Member Profiles For Authenticity

Our members are real life people who want to chat and date. We verify all accounts to save you time, and keep you safe. Our Moderation Team work tirelessly to ensure you’re communicating in a friendly, safe environment.

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Free To Join Alternative Dating!

Sign up today and start your alternative dating journey, then upgrade to using our site’s advanced features!

Step 1 - Sign up

Find your ideal partner by signing up for a profile today, it only takes a a minute and you can start browsing our members right away. Join Now!

Step 2 - Profile and Photo

Make yourself stand out over the others. Sell yourself by telling them more about you using the profile wizard. And definitely add pictures because, be honest, would you date someone you’ve never seen?

Step 3 - Search Members

Search members and start messaging! Our customer service team work tirelessly to make sure you have the best dating experience, so contact us if you need any assistance.

We want to help you find whatever you’re looking for as best we can, so sign up and get started.

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